My main question, who here has gone to court without a lawyer and your husband actually got what he wanted and HOW!!??
We only get my step daughter two days a week, in the middle of the week, and my husband is seriously the best dad in the world. His ex got 5 days when they went to court the last two times because the judge said my step daughter was too young to be away from her Mother, and the second time it was because this was the schedule she is "used" to and she is still too young to switch without confusion for her. SO, now my step daughter is 6, I feel like we should get her one week on, one week off. How do we do it? With getting her in the middle of the week we literally see her for a total of 8 hours between work and bedtime :( *sidenote, BioMom is NOT nice and will definitely try to prevent this from happening. She has taken us to court for "contempt" three times for days we had our step daughter that she didn't think we should and each time was proven wrong and had to pay back our court fees, she is NEVER nice, tells my Step daughter to tell me very mean things, tells her she isn't allowed to love me, etc. Her mom lives off the govt, works part time for $8.00 an hour, we pay child support, and honestly would still pay it if it meant we could have our SD more often! We have a house where she has her own room (this used to be brought up as a problem when she had to share) a huge backyard, and close to her school, our daughter, her sister also misses her very much (as do we), BioMom is not in a relationship and lives in a bad neighborhood in the same town as us. Just giving some details in case any of this matters? lol We want our girl more!
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